The separator: Ineffable Poise

David Wright, Ian Kinsler and Hiroki Kuroda all have this in common; they have really hard skulls.  All three were hit in the head by baseballs traveling 90+ miles per hour and on Saturday night August 15, they served as visual reminders poise daily confronts the dangers of professional sports. I can conjecture that there is a proverbial dotted line on which you sign when you make it pro and there is likely fine print that says something to the effect that you acknowledge the risk associated with your new lucrative employment.

Fine print doesn’t make what we saw in Major League Baseball on August 15 any easier to behold. Two of the three incidents were due to balls gettnig away from pitchers and tailing off toward the unsuspecting batter bravely standing in the box. The third was Dodger pitcher Kuroda who received his artillery from the bat of an Arizona Diamond Backs batter who hit a come-backer straight up the middle.

It’s been a chippy couple of weeks in the majors with all the beaning of batters, bench-clearing brawls and win-at-all-cost antics. Tempers are flaring and accidents are becoming more frequent but the truth underlying all of this bedlam is that sports are risky and those who compete in them, while privileged, are paid for more than their ability; they’re paid for their poise.

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Shaun Livingston (Oklahoma City Thunder)

John Wooden, UCLA basketball coach Emeritus, used poise, self-control and confidence as key building blocks in his pyramid of success. Poise was that seemingly ineffable quality that Wooden thought was necessary because it meant you were going to be able to perform under stress. He believed in preparation and in mistakes. Wooden’s mentor was a coach by the name of Piggy Lambert who believed mistakes were unavoidable. Poise is why the two batters and pitcher hit on Saturday night will return to the diamond to do their jobs.

It’s the reason former Clippers guard Shaun Livingston is still in the NBA. According to a Wikipedia article, Livingston injured almost every part of his knee, tearing the anterior cruciate ligament (ACL), the posterior cruciate ligament (PCL), and the lateral meniscus, badly spraining his medial collateral ligament (MCL), and dislocating his patella and his tibiafemoral joint. He destroyed his knee on February 26, 2007 but on March 31, 2009, he signed a multi-year contract with the Oklahoma City Thunder. It takes more than talent to play at the highest level of sports and what it takes has nothing to do with banned substances or nepotism. You have to prepare, compete, get hit, get up and do your job…probably in that order.

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4 Comments on “The separator: Ineffable Poise”

  1. “….you, me, no one can hit as hard as life. But its not about how hard you hit, its about hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. Thats how winning is done. Now if you know what you’re worth than go and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits.”

    Rocky Balboa

  2. Right B. Life and Sport hit hard and debilitate. That’s the rub. You can get hit but can you respond or get up after injury and attempt previous activities in the face of fear. That’s what amazes me about these athletes and even more so the soldier. But either way it’s a great analogy whose theme we do well to heed. With the kids I coach i don’t care as much about skill as I do about poise, confidence and humility.

  3. wow this is awesome to read I recently was on tour with my two brothers Scott and Tom in Italy and I tore my acl, pcl and lcl… This definitely helps put it into perspective that I’m pretty sure its not the end of the world for me and I need to trust a little less in myself and more on the Big Man upstairs…

  4. Mark I admire your courage. It’s puzzling to experience the disappointment associated with any injury if not infuriating. It’s easy to blame, quit, complain, etc. I pray your full recovery man. We need more athletes to have your attitude even before they get injured.